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Comment replies consisting solely of images will be removed. Mod posts Serious posts Megathread Breaking news Unfilter. Thin guys with fat girlfriends, why? Currently single but both my exes were on the larger side. It's just what I'm attracted to. Everybody has their own preferences. Eventually the months turn into years and the years turn into decades and relationships come and go.

One day, you find yourself way more attracted to somebody who is nice to you and doesn't give you a bunch of shit about trivial things. A person who makes you feel human, who you actually enjoy spending time with, who you find yourself wanting to please because doing so brings you pleasure is mighty sexy. Not at all. Just stating that priorities of attraction evolve. The packaging becomes less important. Let me try to explain I've always enjoyed played sports and being active.

As a result, for much of my teenage years I ended up dating girls that did what I did. Runners, gymnasts, etc. They were all in fantastic shape. But I found that the sex was somewhat lacking. For me, it felt like I was having sex with a slightly less buff dude. Their bodies were very hard and toned, I just wasn't into it for some reason. I found myself being more and more attracted to women with more curves. Not just a big ass and boobs. A good set of hips and thighs were my cryptonite.

After my first time having sex with a thicker woman, that was it for me. I don't know if I can go back. It just feels better to me. Basically, people are just programmed differently. Also, a lot of peoples definition of fat is insane, especially for women. There's a difference between having a few extra pounds in certain areas and being obese.

Honestly, I know your heart's in the right place, but you're basically saying fat people are ugly. Maybe some people are attracted to bigger girls? I said evaluate people on their character, not their weight, and you heard "basically fat people are ugly" give me a fucking break. Sorry, your response is that some people evaluate their partners on character as if it's an alternative to physical attraction.

It's not op. Op is evaluating people on their appearance and not character in the question you fuckwit. Hey nobody is saying you have to find chubby girls attractive, just recognize when you're saying something, intentionally or not, derogatory about them. Wrong again. I'm saying when you really love someone, you will be attracted to them regardless of what they look like. See above. But evaluating someone on their appearance and evaluating someone on their character are antithetical.

See Martin Luther King Jr I can't believe we're still having this discussion. I look at my older co-workers and they're so humble and seem satisfied with their lives. Me on the other hand, I don't want to even imagine myself with bald hair and sagging skin. Sexual death sentence. Do I just kill myself then? Idk tbh. Can't imagine a reality where you're unable to attract sexy young girls anymore, and invoke lust on command.

Hard pill to swallow; can be scarring. Being too superficial is the most bittersweet thing ever. Heck, look at Fat uncle looking-ass today, a far cry from the attractive Tyrone he used to be when in G-Unit. Most men don't 'still look good' when they're older. On that note, there is ONE solution though, and what I'm planning on doing to save myself and my superficial personality. Use handsome lookw when young to get married to a dime, that way you have your own milf in middle-age.

When you exclusively seek 'ULTRA lust' in a partner, naturally the less character based you'll become. It's fucked up. Character and intelligence-based people generally lead the most emotionally stable and happiest lives. People who're ridiculously superficial fall into a void when their looks can't do shit anymore. All pussy feels the same, and character is key. You will need someone you can rely on when you're 50 more than you will need someone who looks hot when they're Character and personality can create romantic and sexual feelings towards someone who may not be physically attractive.

Yeah, what I'm proposing is that when you actually love someone you will be attracted to them regardless of their physical appearance. That's why being shallow is looked down upon, because it's counterproductive. I guess the same goes for guys who date fat girls. He has low self esteem right? It's totally not a preference right? Beauty is beauty. And a confident cool big chick is better to me than a prissy stuck up model-type.

A couple reasons, first they're just easier for me to date. I dunno, I guess they just like ME more? Or that's my league? But ultimately I don't really care that much when the lights are off. I'm not very visually stimulated. If she turns me on, she turns me one. Who am I to second guess my dick? I think you might be underestimating the absolutely backbreaking monumental task that is dating a cheese hog.

You try pushing around a land whale in a wheelbarrow for any length of time, and get back to me. Wanna know why the guy is skinny? The sheer calorie burning workout that is hauling around bags of lard. Ever tried to fit a couch through a door? Yeah if you're going to meet your parents, bring a screwdriver. I guarantee you'll be removing a few door frames.

It's like Tetris, except the blocks are an amorphous blob shifting like some hellish bean bag. Grocery cost of dating a fit person? It's pretty negligible. Now try going through fifteen boxes of Jimmy Dean frozen breakfast sandwiches just to satiate your grizzly bear before it's even breakfast time. Don't get me wrong, it's worth it to see that smiling face when you can find it under the never ending avalanche of fleshy jello.

And the sex is fantastic.

"We prop up men who date differently-sized women as heroes, and . because they were the only guys who would date a fat girl like me off this. Only using head and shoulders pictures was a classic 'fat girl trick' Paige in big beautiful women, and big handsome men, and their admirers.

Jesus, Jes, I really really like this. If there's anything I can add, it would be that nobody likes how they look in photos - at first. Photographs are the easiest way to take account of all of our physical "flaws" in one go; and those perceived flaws are different in all of us. It may take time, but the more you do it, the more you will come to look at your own body as a work of art.

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I'm not shy about my big body. The way I see it, if you can't handle my stretch marks, then you don't deserve my cellulite. I wasn't always like this. I used to be the girl who insisted on sex with the lights off. I covered myself every time I got out of bed.

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Close to lbs. A guy has expressed serious romantic interest in me. I find it very difficult to believe he could really be attracted to me. There are cultural and kyriarchal beauty standards in any given time and place. You know it does. The ways some people are visually or sexually attracted to others do align with cultural beauty ideals. It appears that not only could this guy be attracted to you, but that he is. What you need to make peace with is how you feel about yourself and your body.

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James Bond himself remains happily married to television personality Keely Shaye Smith, who these days sports more than your average Hollywood belly. Word to the unwise: Bonus points for attempting to produce a sex tape with her though.

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I was at a friend's birthday party at a bar when I saw my future boyfriend Brian from across the room, talking to the birthday boy. Brian was the type of guy I spent most of high school and college and my entire adult life pining after and never getting: He had a beautiful mouth that was excitedly saying things I couldn't hear, but was making everyone around him laugh. If I had still been at my heaviest weight, I never would have approached Brian. As a fat woman, I have been taught that there is an order of operations for love: First, you get thin; then, you can date who you want. Until you do the first thing, the second thing is impossible. So for many women who struggle with their weight, it becomes a fight not just for their health or well-being, but a struggle to just be worthy of the love so many people take for granted. Most of my life, my weight has felt like a search light from above that continually hounds me, putting the spotlight on my body even when I just want to hide. My third-grade class unofficially voted me "class pig" — a title I embraced with great gusto, because the alternative meant no friends. When I was 10, my dad ripped a box of Apple Jacks out of my hand while I was pouring myself a second bowl of cereal, and told me that I was "going to turn into a goddamn pumpkin. Still, when I put on a bikini one day, my mother wouldn't stop talking about my belly fat until I just wanted to throw the bikini away and never wear one again.

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Louis C. In the episode, Louis meets Vanessa played by Sarah Baker — a funny, vivacious, pretty and open-hearted woman — at the Comedy Cellar where she is working as a waitress and he, as usual, is performing standup. After his set, she asks him out on a date, but — despite all her appealing attributes — he declines. The next time they bump into her, she once again charms, asks him out again and he says no. The chemistry is there, but Vanessa is fatter than women he's gone out with in the past and the idea of dating her makes him uncomfortable.

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Your account is not active. We have sent an email to the address you provided with an activation link. Check your inbox, and click on the link to activate your account. The genetic lottery happens very early in life, but its prizes or the lack of are evident during most of our days on Earth. The consequences of this natural process we have no control of, unfortunately, often leads to double standards , favoring the pretty and hurting the ugly people.

A week ago, an Instagram post of a man proclaiming that he finds his wife attractive went viral. It was as if he thought he was the only man in the world to have a plus sized wife he found attractive and that this made him a divine godsend of a husband. On the flipside, if a woman proclaimed how she found her larger husband attractive, no one would care. But thank the lord that another mediocre man finds a plus sized woman attractive. No one can accuse someone like Lenny Henry for only doing Comic Relief purely for attention, or Bono for doing Live Aid because he wanted people to think he was great.

Women with high reproductive value attract men. Teenage boys, on average, prefer girls a year older. Men in their middle twenties usually prefer women a year or two younger. Thirty-something men prefer women 5 to 10 years younger. Many men in their 40s and 50s prefer women 10 to 20 years younger. In the past women of all ages up to about 45 prefer, on average, a man a few years older.

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