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A few friends and new people I met will ask me this upon knowing my Husband is a Malay and we've been dating for quite a long period of time. Of cos I'm not gonna end like that la hor. Mister himself is quite a "jiak kan tang Malay". Although I'm quite the same for a Chinese. And he grow up with a bunch of Chinese friends, so basically he's like a half Chinese.

Hence my recount of how it's like dating a Malay may not be accurate and the same for others! Must put this disclaimer first. I felt the difference, having dated a Chinese myself in the past. Mister is always, always looking out for me. Things that I neglect or dismiss as unimportant, Mister took note! For example, he knows I dislike boiled potatoes.

If it happens that the food I'm eating has that, he'll just automatically ask if I want to switch with him or pass him the potatoes to finish up. Or if the food I chose doesn't sit well with my palate, and I felt his was more delicious, he'll switch with me! He also took note of the time of the month and he will back off if I'm irritable easily.

Good move, Mister! All couples show love in different ways. Mister shows his love through acts of service mainly. He likes to see me happy because that's what makes him happy. In the past, I was a wreck with my finances. I spent more than what I earned and was always in debt. Mister helped me out time to time by lending me and I always make it a point to pay him back once I get my pay. He even helped me to sort out my finances and I'm really grateful for that.

So he's not a flower and chocolates kind of guy. But he is definitely the say and action kind of guy. If he say he'll clean the house, he will no matter how tired he is. He does shower me with gifts, but practical ones. Like my macbook years ago, iPad 2, iPhone 6s.. My Apple family is almost complete! I don't know if it's the kampung spirit, but I see that Mister is not the only Malay guy who puts family first, even before getting married with me.

And now that I'm part of his family, I feel really blessed he places me as his priority now.. I have met Malay boys who are Super cheeky! But erm Mister is not cheeky per se. But he's very witty. He likes to crack pun jokes and he enjoys brain teasers. He's quite a shy guy! So I think this stereotype of Malays doesn't apply to him. I do feel this warmth when I was first introduced to his extended family. They're so friendly and it really help that most of his close cousins are around our age so we hit off on my first visit to his family gathering!

I see the kampung spirit even more during weddings. Everyone will just chip in to help, no matter how small or big. Pack gifts la, prepare food la, gather family members, etc. It's really heartwarming, honestly. And during the Hari Raya period. I love going to his Auntie's for a feast!! It's really nice to see them families all so close-knitted. At least for my Chinese side, I don't feel that tight bond as Mister's side of family. This is how I look or feel like when I'm at his family gatherings.

I don't know what they talk about most of the time due to my limited Malay and I could only pick up a few vocab. I blame Mister for not talking to me in Malay more often. When they re-tell the jokes to me, it wasn't as funny as when it's cracked in Malay la. Same for us Chinese! So yes, we do have these moments sometimes.

There's some truth in that. He doesn't like to gan jeong or rush for things. Not sure if it's attributed by his introvert nature or not, but this is something we had conflicts about when we first started dating. Over time, we kinda balanced out our pattern. Like he will plan more stuff to fill up our day, weeks, months and I learnt to take things a bit more easy. He is always on time though. He hates lateness, like me. So I guess it boils down to character?

My tolerance for spiciness is quite high before I met Mister but I don't deny that after meeting him, my tolerance increased even more! But Chili padi I still kanut. He can though! Which amaze me every time. This is LOVE And after eating at his Aunt's few years back, I start to love Ayam masak Merah! Mister and me in terms of our skin colour. We like to make jabs at each other's races. Playfully of course. The other day, we were walking home and there was this pungent smell of At least that's what Mister told me la.

Then he said,"you know ah, last time your Husband roll around in this cos I play Soccer under the void deck. Then how come you're not fairer??? Since you know Chlorine is you know, a kind of bleach? But well Not advisable to do that if your friends not as open minded as some of us ya! Actually, most of the racist jokes start from Mister himself, making jabs at his own race. Which makes it even funnier? I guess that's why we seem to have a lot of chemistry to some of our friends, through all these puns, jabs, arguments, fun, laughter and joy.

You know what? At the end of the day, it doesn't matter if it's same race, interracial, international, same sex, big gap, etc. Love is blind, but I believe through time and tests, you will know if this someone is for you or not. I know some of you are facing tremendous stress and challenges to be with your partner and make it a forever ever story. It's not easy, having been through it myself. But it is possible. I believe in constant prayers and to always keep him in your heart.

Pray that one day, you two can overcome all these challenges ahead of you now and you two can enjoy the sweet fruits of your labour in time to come. Mister also recounted his side of story of how it's like to date a Chinese! And the Everyday life. Nice to know there's people who enjoy reading! I'm dating a malay too and i can totally relate to the spice and translation part!

I absolutely love how they're so family oriented: Join our community! Download the app, and get updates from sandydandy. Remove this bar by logging in. Follow Following. How it's like dating a Malay.

Hence my recount of how it's like dating a Malay may not be not the only Malay guy who puts family first, even before getting married with me. Yeah there are a few Malay guys in my workplace that I find attractive. But dating them.. not with the aim of getting into a long term, serious.

Related Posts. And he grow up with a bunch of Chinese friends, so basically he's like a half Chinese. Hence my recount of how it's like dating a Malay may not be accurate and the same for others! Must put this disclaimer first. I felt the difference, having dated a Chinese myself in the past.

On the whole, Malaysians still hold a pretty conservative idea on gender roles; men as breadwinners and women as dependents. Even an innocent peck on the cheek is considered noteworthy.

I see Yeah, marriage still needs approval from parents after all.

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A few friends and new people I met will ask me this upon knowing my Husband is a Malay and we've been dating for quite a long period of time. Of cos I'm not gonna end like that la hor. Mister himself is quite a "jiak kan tang Malay". Although I'm quite the same for a Chinese. And he grow up with a bunch of Chinese friends, so basically he's like a half Chinese.

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